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Are You Satisfied? (The Target Question)

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The other day I gave my mom a lift to Target because she needed to re-stock those fancy little bathroom soaps that are supposed to be for “decorative purposes” only but my father ends up using anyway (”I like the smell”, is what he’d say when caught soapy handed ^_^)

Noticing the job kiosk unoccupied I decided to fill out a computer application to pass the time, after filling out the first section that asked for name, contact info, education, etc.; I was bought to the second section that asked you a series of questions designed to take a snapshot of your personality.  Going through them I came across one in particular that has interested me:

“Are you satisfied with your life?”

It grabbed my attention because it was an unusual question to ask, especially in a job application.  But it certainly makes for interesting blog fodder I thought.

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The Joy Of Now


Photo by intimaj

 
There is a park a few minutes from my house with a little pond and a bench.  I first saw this place about 9 years ago and told myself that I would sit on that bench one of these days.  Driving back from work one day I finally decided to stop by and just sit, and I’m glad I did.  On that day the sun was out and the sky was so blue.  The newly cut grass had that fresh, comforting smell.  The breeze was just right and felt nice.  There were ducks on the pond that day and they were waddling around.  The ripples that they made in the water had a calming, almost hypnotic quality to them.  And as I sat there taking it all in I felt calm, relaxed, and happy.  It was a simple moment for sure, but the feeling of contentment was undeniable.  This was the feeling of happiness in the moment, the joy of now.

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Take a Day Off, Do Nothing At All.

Life can be frantic, chaotic, and loud.  From the moment the gun fires in the morning when the alarm clock goes off it is a race from start to finish.  To get through our day with whatever it is that we must slog through to make it so that we can make a living, stay out of trouble, and be a productive member of society.  We go home, eat our dinner, go to sleep.  The alarm goes off the next day and we start anew - a crazy, and at the same time, monotonous cycle.  We want to get away from it all and go on a long, relaxing vacation but more often than not it is just not possible.  My solution?  Take a mini-vacation for one day.  

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1,2,3…Ubuntu!

Last week my beloved Celtics have won their 17th championship after waiting 22 years for another shot at the title.  And the fact that they did it against the Lakers makes it especially sweet :).  Looking back on their season, there were many factors that attributed to the biggest turn around in NBA history from a  team that won 24 games in 2006-2007 season to 66 wins and the world championship the year after.  Most people will say that it was the acquisition of Kevin Garnett and Ray Allen along with several role players.  Some says it’s their commitment to defense.  I say it’s because of a mindset that they’ve adopted in the beginning of the season.  The mindset of ubuntu.

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To Past, Present, and Future Fathers…

Happy Father’s Day.

There are men who want to do everything that their fathers did. 

Others want to do the opposite.

Then there are others in the middle. 

Which one are you?

I have learned much from my father.  In things that I want to do by his example.  And things that I don’t because of his example as well.  I may not agree with everything that he has done and I’m sure he’d probably say the same thing. 

I don’t know if I’ll be as loving to my children when it is my time or if I push them as hard in academia. 

I don’t know if I’ll be as encouraging to my children to do their best or if I express disappointment when I know that my child has not given their all. 

I don’t know if I’ll tell my children to get a respectable job or if I encourage them to pursue what/who makes them happy.

All I know is I am the man I am today because my dad did his best.  And for this I am eternally grateful.

Thanks dad, and I love you.

So to my dad, and to the past, present and future fathers…

Happy Father’s Day :)

 

My Take on The Secret.

“The Secret” has been reviewed, dissected, admired, and mocked for over 2 years now since it was first published by author Rhonda Byrne in 2006 and turned into a TV special and subsequently a DVD.  Being fashionably late to the party, here is my take on it:

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Beat the Sunday Paper Addiction.

Sunday PaperCan’t get by without the paper?  Fine.  At least don’t look at the ads.  Best Buy, Circuit City, CompUSA(RIP).  These were the things that I looked forward to in the Sunday paper.  I was not interested in the weather.  The comics were nice, but those could always wait.  Never mind what was going on in my neck of the woods, much less the world, the ads had to be looked at first.  Sunday morning @ 9am sharp I would fetch the paper from the driveway, plop it up on the kitchen table, and proceed to dismantle the thing until I found those precious Sunday ads. 

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Regret - An Effective Motivational Tool.


Photo by eschipul
 

“I want to live in Hawaii and live happily ever after”  A friend of mine once told me. 

(Humoring him) “Alright.” I said.

“I just have to wait till the time is right” He added

“So when is the right time?”  I asked him.

“Once I get my ducks in a row.”  He replied

“When will that happen? ”  I asked.

“When I tidy up some loose ends.” He said

(Getting annoyed) “Sigh..and when will that happen?”

“I don’t know, I’m just afraid I might f%# it all up”

It was at this point that I slapped him upside the head.

We first had this conversation in 1997 and he would bring it up every year.  Every year he puts it off again, and every year I slap him upside the head as a motivational tool.  Like the changing of the leaves in the fall, it became a recurring phenomena.  

Looking back on it now, whacking him in the noggin was not the most constructive thing I could’ve done (however satisfying it may have been).  It does present an opportunity to write about taking risks, something that I’ve been putting off for a while now :) Continue Reading…

Maxed Out? Far Out!

I’ve recently had the chance to watch the documentary Maxed Out, about the credit card and lending industry in America.  Some interesting tidbits gleaned from the movie:

- Dave Ramsey is over-caffeinated

-They put elevators in houses now!

-Robin Leech is still alive?

-Credit card executives and debt collectors are the scum of the earth.

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Winning The Lottery. What Are The Odds?

The lotteryLast week a friend of mine won $20 bucks from the lottery.  This was especially sweet for her because she has been on a losing streak lately.  According to her she has gone 3 weeks without winning.  Now she plays the lotto twice a week, and puts down $5 each time with her regular numbers (birthdays of her kids, husband, mom and dad, etc..).  So for the past 3 weeks she spent $ 30 and gotten nothing for it.  When I asked her how much she usually wins she smiles and proudly tells me that she at least, wins $3 back - most of the time.  This is hilarious not just because she thinks occasionally getting 3 dollars from spending 10 dollars a week constitutes a win, it’s because she works in a bank :) 

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